How can we develop good habits? By ` good ` we probably mean the habits that were inculcated into us as children. Perhaps some of them need re examination, but generally speaking we want our children to learn to be considerate of others and never to cause hurt or offence. It` s in the light of this idea that we have to consider ` bad` habits. Most of those usually put into this category are merely passing phases and do not indicate delinquency or depravity. Unless we make too much fuss of them, they will disappear in time.
HOW WOULD A BABY STOP SUCKING HIS THUMB-
This is the question that worries a lot of parents. Once again they see this habit as reflecting on themselves and are ashamed to have a toddler who is still using this form of comfort. A majority of babies and toddlers suck their thumbs for comfort when tired, upset or bored. Thumb sucking does not cause crooked teeth, if we accept the habit without comment and try as far as possible to avoid situations that make the child tired, upset or bored, the habit will eventually die away unless the child has some inordinate need for comfort which his daily situation is not providing. If we draw attention to it and make a big issue of it the habit is likely to persist longer. The same applies to the variety of `comfort objects` old blankets, soft toys, even bits of papers that some children will suck or stroke their faces with in the sort of situation where others suck thumbs. The only hazard here is that these objects may get so dirty that they become unhygienic or unpleasing to the eye. If possible try to have two so that a surreptitious switch can be made when necessary.
HOW CAN WE STOP HIS NAIL-BITING?
Again this is not very common in under-fives, but if it happens, it can sometimes be another sign of tension and insecurity. In this case the cause must be considered and direct attention will make matters worse. However like other habits it may simply be a learned response to rough, catchy nails, so keep nails trimmed.
HOW CAN WE STOP OUR CHILD EATING DIRT- Occasionally a child will go beyond the stage of putting unusual things in his mouth and develop a liking for food, coal, paper or even faeces. Luckily it seldom makes the child ill, although it may sometimes be associated with anaemia. However you should try to curb the tendency and safeguard him from all dangerous or poisonous substances.